Gary Randall Patterson

Gary Randall Patterson, 69, of Black Mountain, North Carolina, went home to be with the Lord on Wednesday, November 26, 2025, after bravely battling and overcoming multiple health challenges throughout his life. Though he fought with unwavering strength and faith, he ultimately lost his final battle and entered eternal rest, reunited with those he loved.

Gary was born on September 11, 1956, in Andrews, NC, to Audrey M. Patterson and A. Harold Patterson. Raised in the mountains he cherished, Gary grew into a man defined by kindness, creativity, and a servant’s heart. He was a proud graduate of West Henderson High School and later honorably served his country in the United States Air Force, a role he carried with deep humility and pride.

A gifted and creative soul, Gary was known for his incredible cooking, artistic talents, and his willingness to help anyone in need. His faith was the cornerstone of his life. As a devoted and faithful member of Swannanoa Church of God, Gary lived out his beliefs through service, compassion, and unwavering dedication to others.

Family was Gary’s greatest blessing. He held a special, extraordinary bond with his granddaughter Jordan, and he was a proud great-grandfather to Braxton Lee, whose presence filled his heart with joy. Gary now rejoices in Heaven with his beloved wife, Mary L. Patterson, his sister Sandra Lance, and his parents.

He leaves behind a legacy defined by gentleness, generosity, and faith. Gary is survived by his daughter Cati Harris and her husband Chuck; granddaughter Jordan Ballard and her fiancé Brayden Phillips; great-grandson Braxton Lee Burnett; sister Sherri Stansell and her husband B.J. Stansell; brother Jeff Patterson and his wife Vickie Patterson; niece Jessie Stansell; great-niece Kaitlyn Felder and her partner Nic; nephew Josh DeGhetto and his partner Sam; great-niece Jameece Metcalf and her husband Richard; along with many extended family members and dear friends who were touched by his love.

The family extends heartfelt gratitude to Bo Creasman for his constant support, and to Robert and Cathy Haynie for their enduring friendship and care. A very special thank you is also offered to the compassionate team at CarePartners Hospice Solace Center, whose kindness and support during his final days meant so much. The family would also like to express deep appreciation to the Home Care Team, Ginger, and the many dedicated staff members at the Charles George VA Medical Center in Asheville, NC, for their exceptional care, support, and commitment to Gary throughout his journey.

A joint funeral service for Gary and his wife Mary Patterson will be held on Sunday, December 14, 2025, at Swannanoa Church of God. Visitation will be from 2:00 to 2:30 PM, followed by the service at 3:00 PM.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Swannanoa Church of God, honoring Gary’s lifelong devotion to his church and his faith.

Gary will be remembered for his pure heart, his steadfast faith, his giving spirit, and the immeasurable love he held for his family. His legacy will forever live on in the lives he touched.

“Well done, good and faithful servant… Enter into the joy of your Lord.” – Matthew 25:23

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